Dating is now harder than ever. A klick away, you can date people all over the world. You meet new people not knpwing what to expect, unot knowing what they are expecting. So of course, it’s normal to feel a little fidgety or scared. Especially when you have been hurt before. It’s just unfair that you let that fear limit yourself. It takes a lot to break down your walls, so you can unite your soul. What I can advice you, is the most common advice, always stay yourself. It might sound cliché, but it works. Don’t try to be someone you’re not. People want to be surrounded by genuine people. Another advice I can give to you is,  make sure that the attraction is spiritually and emotionally, not only financially, physically or mentally. Make sure you marry your ride or die, not the one you wish dies.