Do you ever wonder how you can become an it-girl like Serena van Der Woodsen and Blair Waldorf are in Gossip Girl? I sure do.

Or how you can obtain the elegance she has? The glamour?

The success?

The boldness?

The youthful attitude?

The professionalism?

The ambition?

The people skills? The charming attitude?

Well, it’s a lot easier than you might think. A lot of it has to do with your well-being. Your self-image and your self-confidence can have a significant impact in how you communicate.