You are going to want to read this… trust me!

She came to me after a break up. Not just any break up -the kind that rips your soul open and makes you question if true love is even real. The kind that leaves you replaying every moment, wondering how the hell you got here again.

But she was convinced of one thing… it was the fucking man! ‘They never pursue me, they never appreciate me, they don’t care about me the way I care about them.’

She was sad. Exhausted. Angry.

And I get it -because when you keep meeting emotionally unavailable men, men who leaves you second-guessing yourself, men who don’t meet you where you are… it feels like it’s just them. Like you just have bad luck.

But what she quickly realized in our time together -it wasn’t the men. It was her body’s frequency. Because no matter how much she consciously wanted love, her nervous system was wired for something else.

Her body didn’t feel safe with love that was soft, certain, or deeply devoted. Her body felt familiar in love that was inconsistent, unclear, and kept her chasing.

And what you need to understand about your body is this: you don’t attract what you want -you attract what your body is conditioned to feel safe in.

Her entire life, love had felt like proving herself. So, even as a grown woman, she kept calling in men who required her to prove her worth.

But after 6 sessions together -not only did she heal the part of her that was attracting these men, but she healed a childhood wound she never even realized was running the show.

And yesterday, she told me she met a man. And for the first time in her life -she feels chosen, safe, wanted, and soft.

This is the power of deep healing. This is the power of rewiring your body’s baseline for love.

This is the power of reprogramming your nervous system back to the way it was meant to be -before the pain, the trauma, the betrayal.

Because love isn’t meant to be a fight. A chase. A constant effort to be chosen. Love is meant to land in your life. And your body is meant to feel safe receiving it.