Sitting at my beautiful appartement in Portugal, wrapping up my notes for a new blog post, and sipping my matcha -I had a thought randomly come to mind: “I deserve this.”

Five years ago, I couldn’t say those words without guilt and shame filling my WHOLE BODY. 

It felt like wanting more made me greedy. Like desiring softness, wealth, beauty, rest, and deep love made me wrong. 

We’ve been taught to earn everything through sweat, sacrifice, and self-neglect. 

We’ve been conditioned to believe that worthiness is earned through pain. And let me be clear -this is a lie that has robbed millions of women of everything they came here to claim. 

The feminine doesn’t thrive under pressure. She thrives in permission. 

The moment a woman says, “I deserve this”, she activates a completely different reality. She sends a signal to her nervous system that she is safe to receive. 

To receive pleasure. Rest. Overflow. Intimacy. Respect. Money. Devotion. Abundance. 

But here’s what no one told us growing up: The reason you overwork, the reason you can’t rest, the reason you sabotage good love or undercharge for your genius -is not because you’re lazy or broken. 

It’s because your body has been trained to believe that having really great things is unsafe and has to be earned. 

That’s the real wound. The worthiness wound. 

And it lives in nearly every woman I’ve ever worked with, no matter how successful she looks on the outside. 

It comes from generations of women being told to serve but not receive, to give but not to need, to stay quiet, stay humble, stay small. 

But that stops with you. Because we don’t heal by talking about it. We heal by releasing it from our body. 

We heal in rooms where women are held, witnessed, challenged, and finally seen in the wholeness of who they are. 

This is why I am doing something I’ve never done before. In two weeks, I am revealing an all-inclusive, premium course on productivity.

Because productivity is not just about hustling more. It’s about doing more in less time.

This will be an identity-shifting, soul-shaking, nervous system-rewiring journey. We’re going deep into: procrastination, perfectionism, people-pleasing and every trauma your body is still holding onto that keeps you feeling not enough and too much…

Deep relational wounds and how you hold yourself through them, reclaiming your voice, body, and full feminine expression and how this directly ties to your ability to have it all. 

You don’t heal these wounds through journaling alone. You don’t heal in isolation. That’s the masculine way. The feminine heals in togetherness. And in sisterhood, we heal faster. 

This is why I created my blog.

This is it. Your healing and expansion is there where you finally say YES to yourself.