I know why you don’t have what you want… and it is your fault. 

Before you can heal, before you attract the kind of relationship that actually feels safe, before you fix your relationship with food or your body or your self-worth, launch the product, grow the business, or finally stop shrinking your own life… 

There’s something that has to happen first. Something I know you are NOT DOING or you would already be HER. 

You have to decide. 

Note the ‘write it in a journal and hope for the best’ kind of way. Not in the ‘let’s give it a go and see what happens’ kind of way. 

But in the real way. The energy-shifting, no-going-back kind of way. 

Because most women think they’ve decided… But if we’re being honest? They’ve got one foot in, one foot out. 

Saying they want to heal, grow, rise -but still clinging to old patterns, relationships, and beliefs that keep them exactly where they are.

And that’s no judgement. That’s human. Your subconscious is wired to keep you in the familiar -even if that means anxiety, shutdown, and self-abandonment.

So when you tell yourself “I want to change”, but your energy is still holding on to your old life, your body doesn’t believe you, and nothing really shifts. Not because you’re broken, but because your nervous system is still trying to protect you from change. 

Here’s what I want you to know: you’re allowed to outgrow the version of you that’s just trying to survive. You’re allowed to decide that you’re ready for more, more peace, more ease, more confidence, more connection, more you. 

And when you fully decide -everything starts moving. The right people show up. The right healing lands. The softness, the clarity, the freedom… it all finds you.

Because you finally stopped waiting. You chose. And that choice? That’s the beginning of everything. 

Let this land. Let it open something. Because the woman you’re becoming -she’s waiting for you. Not the timing, you.

This is the decision you need to make today. Today is the first day of the rest of your life. 

If this post spoke to you -it’s not random. It’s your sign. 

You don’t need more time. You need a space where you can finally feel safe to let go —and even more important- safe to come home to yourself. 

I’ll meet you there.