“If I set this boundary, they’ll probably get pissed and react, so I shouldn’t.” “Look how confident she is, I can never be like that.” “I really want to do that thing, but if I fail, everyone will think I’m a failure.” 

Let’s get into it and get real about self-doubt for a minute because I know it’s something we all deal with.

Let’s start here… if YOU have self-doubting thoughts, guess what? That doesn’t mean anything is wring with you. Self-doubt is part of the human experience. It’s messy, it’s beautiful, and sometimes it’s even necessary for growth. 

The problem isn’t the self-doubt itself -it’s the story you attach to it. 

Stop telling yourself that doubting thoughts mean you have low self-worth. They don’t. They mean you’re a goddamn human being. 

Congratulations. 

Here’s the thing: you might not have control over the first thought that pops into your head, but you do control the next thought or the second thought after that one. Awareness is everything. When a woman becomes wildly aware, patterns are broken. 

Self-doubt loses its grip because you don’t let it linger long enough to take root. And let’s not forget comparison -because that’s where self-doubt loves to spiral. Comparing yourself to someone else will have you feeling stuck in no time. 

The truth is, we’re all living the human experience, and part of that is learning the tools that get you to your next chapter. No one else’s path matters -just yours.

Stepping into the next chapter of your life isn’t about magically becoming her. It’s about releasing and healing the blocks that have been keeping you from being her all along.

So, the next time self-doubt creeps in, remind yourself of that this thought is part of life, not who you are, and that you are in control of what you give your energy to. Every time you redirect your focus, you are building self-trust.

You’ve got this.